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Pickleball Problems: How to Deal with Bad Behavior on the Court

Pickleball is a sport known for its fun, social atmosphere and easy learning curve. But like any sport, it has its share of issues. Whether it's players spreading incorrect rules, snubbing others based on skill level, chatting too much between plays, or even exhibiting aggressive behavior, these bad apples can sometimes spoil the fun for everyone else. Let's dive into some common pickleball problems and see how we can address them.


bad apple with good apples

Rule-Bending Rulers

One of the most frustrating issues in pickleball is encountering players who either don’t know the rules or choose to interpret them in their own unique way. Imagine you're in the middle of a game, and your opponent insists that your perfectly valid serve is illegal. Suddenly, the casual game turns into a heated debate. To avoid these situations, it's always good to have a quick refresher on the rules and maybe even carry a rulebook for reference. A friendly reminder: pickleball is supposed to be fun, not a courtroom drama!


courtroom scene

The Snubbers

Then there are the snubbers – those players who refuse to play with anyone they deem not as good as themselves. It's like high school all over again, with the "cool kids" sticking together and leaving everyone else out. This elitist attitude can be disheartening, especially for beginners who are just trying to enjoy the game and improve their skills. Remember, everyone was a beginner once, and part of the charm of pickleball is its inclusivity. So next time, give someone new a chance – you might be surprised at how much fun you have.


Know-It-Alls

We've all encountered know-it-alls on the court. These players have an opinion on everything and are not shy about sharing it. Whether it's critiquing your serve, your footwork, or even your paddle choice, they have something to say. While some advice can be helpful, constant unsolicited critiques can be exhausting. A little humility goes a long way, and sometimes, the best way to help a fellow player is by letting them learn and enjoy the game at their own pace.


And then there are those know-it-alls who decide to coach you while you're playing, without even asking if you want their advice. Ironically, these impromptu coaches are often the ones making the most mistakes themselves. It's one thing to share tips and tricks when asked, but unsolicited coaching during a game can be incredibly distracting and annoying. Remember, if someone wants help, they'll ask for it.


Experienced players also face the challenge of being expected to coach new players constantly. While helping beginners can be rewarding, it can become tiresome, especially when you're the one who's been taking lessons for months and paying for them. Sometimes, you just want to focus on improving your own game. Why do new people always think you can teach them?


pickleball girl

The Chatty Cathies

Ah, the Chatty Cathies. We all know them – the players who seem more interested in discussing the weather, their latest doctor's visit, or just about anything else while the rest of us are waiting for them to serve. While pickleball is a social sport, there’s a time and place for everything. When it's your turn to serve, it's not the time for a detailed account of your latest grocery store adventure. Keep the chatter to a minimum during play to keep the game moving and everyone engaged.


And let’s not forget those who hold up the courts by chatting as a group instead of clearing the way for the next players. Socializing is great, but when your game is over, please step aside so others can enjoy their turn. There’s nothing more frustrating than waiting to play while a group of Chatty Cathies holds a post-game conference in the middle of the court.


The Bullies

Perhaps the most troubling type of player is the bully – someone who takes aggressive shots aimed directly at other players. Pickleball should be competitive but never dangerous. Unfortunately, there are people out there who take pride in targeting others. I once heard about a guy who boasted about hitting a lady in the chest who had undergone mastectomies. This kind of behavior is not only unsportsmanlike but downright cruel. Safety and respect should always come first, and there's no place for such aggression on the

court.


mean guy playing pickleball

The Ball Rollers

Another issue that can lead to serious accidents is players who don’t call out when their ball rolls into an opponent's court. This oversight can cause someone to trip and potentially injure themselves, like twisting an ankle or worse. It's crucial for safety that everyone stays alert and calls out “ball on court” tor "ball" to prevent these accidents. And speaking of balls rolling onto another court, how many balls can roll into another court before their limit for the day is up? It's a mystery, but let's aim to keep it to a minimum for everyone’s sake!


colorful pickleballs

The Apologizers

Let's not forget the constant apologizers – those players who say "I'm sorry" for every mistake or mishap. While it's good to be courteous, constantly apologizing can become quite annoying. Everyone makes mistakes in pickleball, and it's part of the game. There's no need to apologize for every missed shot or error. In fact, there are no "sorrys" in pickleball. It’s a game, and it's meant to be fun!


Calling Balls In or Out

Another common pickleball pet peeve is the debate over whether a ball is in or out. This can get heated quickly, with players and onlookers voicing their opinions. According to the official PPA (Professional Pickleball Association) rules: "The receiving team is responsible for making the line call on their side of the court." That means it's not your call, not the players watching, and definitely not the disgruntled others. Let the receiving team make the call, and respect their decision. Getting upset over these calls can ruin the fun and competitive spirit of the game.


How to Handle These Issues in Pickleball

So, how do we deal with these pickleball problems? The truth is, many of us don't know what to do, so we end up saying or doing nothing. Unfortunately, those who do speak up often get labeled as "Karens" or other derogatory terms, which discourages others from addressing issues.


However, communication is key. If someone is spreading incorrect rules, kindly offer to review the rules together. If you see snubbing happening, invite the excluded player to join your game. For know-it-alls, a polite but firm response can help set boundaries.


girl saying shhh

When dealing with Chatty Cathies, a gentle reminder to focus on the game can work wonders. If they’re holding up the courts post-game, a friendly nudge to continue the conversation off the court can help keep things moving. For the ball rollers, emphasizing the importance of calling out stray balls can prevent injuries. For the constant apologizers, remind them that mistakes are part of the game and there's no need to apologize constantly. As for bullies, reporting their behavior to the court or club management is crucial.


It's important to remember that most people don't realize they are engaging in these behaviors and may actually appreciate being called out. By addressing the issues respectfully and constructively, we can help create a better environment for everyone.

And let's be honest, sometimes we're just happy to be wearing sunglasses so our eyerolls are covered up on the outdoor courts. A little humor can go a long way in making these moments more bearable.


Creating a culture where addressing these issues is seen as maintaining the integrity and enjoyment of the game rather than causing trouble is important. Encouraging a respectful and inclusive environment will help ensure that pickleball remains a sport that everyone can enjoy.


Ultimately, pickleball is about having fun, staying active, and building a community. By addressing these issues head-on and fostering a welcoming environment, we can ensure that everyone gets to enjoy the game we love.


So, let's keep the spirit of pickleball alive – play fair, play safe, and most importantly, play with a smile!


happy pickleball players

 

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